I launched The Aligned Shift Magazine with the sincere desire to offer a space for all voices. I put out several direct calls (like this post). I even wrote a whole article about it (the very first one). I also created a website that I’m incredibly proud of.
The Interest
One morning, I turned on my phone and checked my Substack notifications.
Among them was the first short message from a stranger: “delighted to receive the invitation!”
I was immediately super excited ! Someone wanted to receive an invitation to become a contributor! What a joy!
I immediately went to the profile of the message’s author. I read their description and was touched by their words and their authenticity. I found them powerful, sincere, and vibrant. I appreciated their way of expressing themselves. Very pure and raw, even brutal but interestingly brutal.
Even though I immediately noticed the difference in style, which wasn’t at all in the form of the in-depth essays I envision for Le Magazine. Yet, his interest sparked mine.
The speed
In just two days, everything was wrapped up!
As if by magic, PING! The first contributor to be officially announced received their introduction on the “Our Voices” page, and their first article was ready to be published that very evening.
I recognize this characteristic of mine: sometimes, carried away by enthusiasm, I react and act very quickly. Too quickly.
What happened within me?
The enthusiasm and interest shown stirred my generosity, undoubtedly flattered my ego as well, and without even realizing it, my judgment went silent.
I was looking for excuses to say yes and find a place for him. And I found plenty of reasons!
I even adapted the Magazine’s structure (created a section, a theme) so that this Voice would find its place. Without realizing it, I shelved the Clarity and Vision I had for The Magazine...
Yet...
From the closet, a faint whisper could be heard. I think its name is Doubt...
But a clearer voice quickly silenced the murmur:
“Come on, Audrey, you’re not going to start doubting! You’re absolutely certain you can add this Voice to the Shifters Magazine’s contribution! You have plenty of good reasons!”
Then, a message left under a Note informed me of a new interested person. It happened the day after the first person arrived and spoke to this second.
This voice, too, is sincere, an authentic writer, a rich life. But now, I could no longer ignore the Doubt...
The Uncertainty
Something is wrong. I can’t yet say what it is, but the whisper from the closet suddenly becomes more audible. “No, you can’t accept, and perhaps you shouldn’t have accepted the first one either.” Clarity and Vision definitely had something to say.
So, to listen to them, I developed an Editorial Compass to help me get my thoughts in order. (It’s here: https://thealignedshift.media/editorial-compass.pdf)
I spent the rest of the week confronting my own contradiction.
On my website, I write: “clarity over noise, integrity over performance, depth over speed.” And yet, my hasty “Yes!” was exactly the opposite. Noise. Performance. Speed.
I realized that my problem wasn’t knowing how to welcome. It was knowing how to choose.
The Compass
With this editorial compass, I defined a framework.
And I applied this framework for the first time. I said no to the second person, then apologized to the first for my hasty decision.
I turned down two wonderful people, obviously not for who they are, nor because their writing lacks merit—quite the opposite, in fact, that’s what threw me off. But I had to say no because their stories simply didn’t resonate with the transformative world I’m building.
Learning to say no, that’s also part of refining my approach.
It’s not comfortable. But it’s aligned.
The refinement of my world.
So I asked myself:
“Why has the world I’m building attracted people who don’t correspond to the voices I’m looking for?”
As I formulated the question, the answer flowed forth, as clear as crystal:
“You have opened the doors to all authors capable of embodying authenticity, truth, the expression of living by being.”
However, Le Magazine is the vehicle for a precise vision. Not merely a space for expression, it is a place where voices are not simply authentic, but engaged in a form of inner exploration that they share.
Here, one reads writings that do not simply recount, but that illuminate, that permeate, that transform. Here, one does not come to deposit a raw thought or a lived experience; one comes with something that has been digested, questioned, refined. An embodied voice, aware of its impact, that takes responsibility for going to the heart of the matter rather than remaining on the surface.
This vision echoes a quote from Edith Wharton that has stayed with me for 20 years:
“There are two ways of spreading light: to be the candle or the mirror that reflects it.”
The Magazine is an invitation to become one or the other, and often both at once.
To be the candle is to let your own light illuminate the paths.
To be the mirror is to offer a reflection through which everyone can recognize their own light.
The Magazine is not a collection of voices.
It is a line. A frequency.
A way of being in relationship with oneself, with others, and with the world.
In conclusion
I thank from the bottom of my heart the people I met during this experience and life for giving me this challenge at the beginning of this creative endeavor. That week, these encounters reminded me that openness without direction is not generosity, but dilution.
Saying yes to everyone is saying no to what I’m building.
So I tightened my grip. Not on my heart. Not on listening. But on the framework.
I stopped trying to welcome every sincere voice, and started recognizing those that resonate deeply with the Magazine’s universe. Those that seek not only to express themselves, but also to transform.
Epilogue
At the same time, something else was happening.
As I was saying no clearly for the first time, I also reached out to a voice that, for me, perfectly embodied the essence of the Magazine. It was obvious. A perfect match.
She responded with gentleness and honesty. She was touched. Honored, even. But it wasn’t aligned with her vision. She said no.
Saying no, ultimately, has nothing to do with rejection.
It’s an act of precision. It’s honoring a direction.
And that deserves respect. Perhaps things will be different at another time. Alignment cannot be forced, neither within oneself nor in others.
It’s also about protecting a still fragile space. And above all, it’s about trusting oneself to choose to create with integrity. And that’s where it all truly begins.
The Magazine will grow thanks to the quality of the voices it chooses and those who choose it in return.
By Audrey ✨ founder of The Aligned Shift, an editorial space for Voices who feel the Shift and those who accompany it. It starts with the Magazine.
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